Don't Like Asking for Help?

When I was a kid, I hesitated to ask someone for help because I thought that I would be imposing on them. Fortunately, as an adult, I’ve recovered from this thinking. I’ve decided that it’s okay to ask for help and have observed that people like to help. I’m a small person, standing at 4’11” (but I’m a big person inside!). When I go to the grocery store, I have trouble reaching items on the top shelves. I don’t hesitate to locate a fellow customer that is taller than me (that’s not difficult) to ask them for assistance to reach an item. A beautiful moment transpires when this happens: the stranger’s eyes light up, they often go above and beyond my request (sometimes checking expiry dates for me), and after I’ve given them my sincere thanks, they walk away with a bounce in their step. The interaction built a brief but satisfying connection between us and has elevated both of our shopping experiences.

Create an opportunity for connection.

When we ask for help, the benefits are doubled. You get the help you need and you’ve made someone else feel good because they know they’ve helped someone. It's a simple act for me to ask for assistance at the store. However, it creates positive vibes that last long after I've left the checkout line.

Sometimes asking for help also means you are helping yourself. – Renuka Pitre

During these pandemic times, so many of us are struggling. Any opportunity to speak to another person can provide significant support during these difficult times.

Are you afraid to ask for help?

There are other reasons why we may find it hard to ask for assistance. I’ll write about this in my next post.

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